Give someone you work with legitimate praise today. Watch what happens. They grow taller, more confident and it gives them a glimpse of the great beings they actually are, we all are. Then watch what happens inside you.

I used to have a boss who thought that if he praised me he would have to give me a raise. Don’t laugh. There are a lot of work environments where praise is a scarce commodity, its even a scarce commodity among friends sometimes. On the other hand you complain or grumble, people get involved right away, they start taking sides, having opinions, tell you what to do, etc. Praise is like wild salmon, rare and always swimming against the current.

People are afraid to give praise, afraid of losing something if someone else is recognized for their accomplishment. Quite the contrary. Everyone gains!

Praise someone today. Note who gives you praise. How do you feel?

I am listening …